The Second Half2 Corinthians 5:17

Careful Is Not the Same as Wise

This message is for a future for a person who has settled for being careful for the rest of their life

He says he has learned to be careful, and everybody nods, because it is the kind of sentence a room agrees with.

And it is true, in the sense that he is careful now. He checks. He thinks it through. He does not commit to things quickly, he does not put himself forward, he does not start anything he cannot see the end of, and he has not been caught out once in four years.

He calls it wisdom. Out loud, to other people, he calls it wisdom.

Privately, at about eleven at night in the kitchen, he knows it is not.

Here is how he knows, and I think this is the most useful thing in the whole message, so I want to put it near the front where you can get at it.

Wisdom and fear look identical from outside. Both of them say no to the same things. Both of them slow a person down. You could film two men for a year and not be able to tell which one you had.

They are different on the inside, and there is one reliable test.

Wisdom is quiet. It makes a judgment and then it stops talking, because it has nothing to defend. Fear rehearses. Fear explains itself to people who have not asked, and revisits the decision at night, and produces reasons afterwards, and needs the decision to be right in a way that wisdom simply does not.

He rehearses. That is how he knows.

He has explained his carefulness to three people this month who never questioned it once. He goes over decisions at eleven at night that were made and closed weeks ago. He has a small speech about why he does not do things like that any more, and he has given it more times than the subject has come up.

Now I want to say clearly, before anything else, that some of his carefulness is real wisdom and I am not asking him to throw it out. He did learn things. Some of what he does not do now, he should not do, and a man who came through what he came through and learned nothing would be a fool.

The trouble is not the carefulness. The trouble is that one of the two things living in the same coat is not what it says it is.

I am not going to ask you what happened. Not one word. God has it, you have it, and this message needs the coat rather than the file.

Careful Is Not the Same as Wise

The verse puts the old things in the past tense

Everybody can quote 2 Corinthians 5:17 and most people quote the first half.

Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.2 Corinthians 5:17

Look at the tense on the second half, because that is where the argument is.

Old things are passed away. Not will pass. Not are passing, gradually, as a man gets stronger. It is done, and 2 Corinthians 5:17 states it as an accomplished condition rather than a process, and the Holy Spirit is not administering it in stages.

And this is where the careful man and the verse come into direct conflict, and one of them has to give.

Because carefulness of his kind is a permanent arrangement made on the basis of an old thing. It says: I know what I am now, because of what happened, and I will conduct the rest of my life accordingly. That is a settlement with the past, and it is a settlement the past was never authorized to make.

Here is what the verse puts in your hands instead. You are a new creature and not a repaired one, and 2 Corinthians 5:17 says the old things are already passed rather than still setting your terms, and the Holy Spirit is the one who makes that land in a man who has been quoting the first half of the verse for years.

New creature is not an encouragement. It is a category. Paul is not saying you have improved, he is saying the thing that is now standing there is not the same thing that fell.

And notice the word at the front of the second half: behold. He puts a look-up word in the middle of the sentence, because he knows perfectly well that a man reading it will believe the first clause and go on living inside the old one.

You have already been made new and you are not waiting for a stretch of good conduct to qualify, and 2 Corinthians 5:17 does the whole thing in Christ rather than in your caution, and the Holy Spirit is not managing a probation that the verse never mentions.

So the question about the coat is now answerable. Take each careful thing you do and ask which of the two it is. Wisdom will let you look at it calmly and will not need to explain itself. Fear will start talking.

The breakthrough

So here is the turn, and it is one item, and it happens this week.

You are going to take one thing back.

Not all of it. Not a change of character, and not a lurch into recklessness, which would be the same fear running in the other direction. One thing you stopped doing that you know, when you look at it calmly, you stopped for the wrong one of the two reasons.

Do that one thing this week. And notice, when you have done it, that you did not need to explain it to anybody.

You are held whatever it costs you, and 2 Corinthians 5:17 makes you new in Christ rather than in the outcome of any single week, and the Holy Spirit has been standing in the room the whole time you were rehearsing at eleven at night.

Keep the real wisdom. All of it. It cost you something to learn and it is worth what it cost. Just stop letting the other thing wear its coat.

Now the limits, plainly. This does not promise you that the thing goes well, or that anything returns in the shape it had, or that the second half looks like the first. What He does with any of that is His to decide and He may answer in His own way and in His own time.

And if your second half turns out genuinely quiet, that is not a defeat and it never was. A quiet life is a real life. What is not real is a life arranged by fear and signed off by a word it borrowed.

What is settled today is that the old things are already past tense, and nobody is asking you to make them so.

One plain thing before we finish, and I say it as a friend on a step. If four careful years have taken you anywhere near thinking that the rest of it hardly matters, that is not something to sit with alone at eleven at night. Tell one person today, out loud, and tell your doctor. In the United States you can call or text 988 at any hour and a real person answers. Wherever you live there is a line and somebody is awake right now. 2 Corinthians 5:17 says you are a new creature this minute, His Spirit is with you in this hour, and you are worth the call.

Declare this over yourself

Say these out loud, standing where the step put you. This life is not a reward for courage and cannot be withdrawn for caution: it is yours in Christ, given rather than earned, and exercised in His Name. Speak them, stay standing, and leave the outcome with Him.

  1. Carefulness that took the name of wisdom, you are not wise and I am taking the coat back. 2 Corinthians 5:17 says old things are passed away, so they are not setting my terms, and the Holy Spirit is the one telling the two of you apart in me.
  2. Arrangement I made with a hard year and have kept in the dark ever since, you are answered and you are said out loud. In the name of Jesus I am not finished, because 2 Corinthians 5:17 says behold, all things are become new, and He put a look-up word in the middle of it for a man exactly like me.
  3. God, You made me a new creature rather than a repaired one, and You never once asked me to prove it first. 2 Corinthians 5:17 says if any man be in Christ, so there is more ahead of me and it is not a consolation, and Your Spirit is what I am walking on now instead of my own care.

Why we ask you to say these out loud

The word this stands on

2 Corinthians 5:17

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